Help!

Do not be afraid to ask for help

Help – a simple four letter word that can grab the attention of almost everyone, yet so many of us are afraid to use it. For myself, I am one of those people. When you get first diagnosed with a condition, in my case Epilepsy, you notice people will start to treat you differently and act different around you. You are more carefully watched and more restricted. While we know it is in good faith, we miss our independence and being our own person. For myself, this made me resent the word “help.” Granted, I did and, to a point, still do need it. For me personally, has been very hard for me to accept. But I did. I asked and I do not regret it.


What type of help is available?

There are many sources of help for people with neurological issues. There are government funded programs, programs by state and country, support groups, help lines, help at school, aid if your condition does not allow you to work, counselors, and so on. Follow the link below to a little directory I made where you can find resources in your area for Epilepsy.


What type of help did you need?

While it may be debatable if I should be working at this current moment according to some people and questionable that I should even be in school this semester. I am in school and I will be going back to work this week – all cleared by my neurologist. Some people will look at me and ask me why I would need help if I am functioning as normal. While yes, I am functioning normally in one sense – my brain is still not up to par. Reading takes a long time, comprehending things becomes time consuming, and information recall/memory recall is still a struggle. Now, what if I am taking a test that is timed (which all of my exams and test are) and I do not finish because my brain is in slow-motion due to medication I HAVE to take in order to prevent seizures from occurring? Is it fair to penalize someone over that – especially when it is not their fault? Of course not! This is the type of help I need. It is still considered help and is still something I had to come to terms with. I did not want to feel different or feel like I cannot handle my workload but the truth is; it is simply not my fault. Neither is it yours. And only now, have I came to terms with this. I have been battling this feeling since 2011 and there is not a thing wrong with asking for help.


What if I need help in school?

Do you think your condition or medication is effecting you and your ability to learn? A good place to start is talking to your primary care physician or specialist. They will need to write you a note with the following information: a statement of condition or diagnosis from a licensed professional, description of how the condition was diagnosed and how it may/typically progresses, some places may require a description of the diagnostic criteria and what tests were done in order to diagnose you, information on how the condition limits your functioning by severity and frequency, your current treatment plan, and the recommendations for reasonable accommodations and an explanation of the need for specific accommodations. This letter will then go to your disability office and they will tell you what resources are available. Note that this is not just for people with Epilepsy, but anyone who may need a reasonable accommodation.


Wait, what is a reasonable accommodation?

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Reasonable accommodations fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) and protects those with disabilities against discrimination whether it is in school or in the work place. A reasonable accommodation is “any changes in the work environment (or in the way things are usually done) to help a person with a disability” (https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/disability.cfm). It may be requested orally or in writing at any given time (tip: Schools really appreciate this at the beginning of the semester as soon as possible so they can make the accommodations. Sometimes this cannot be helped). Although, there is a loophole for employers; they can deny the accommodation if “doing so would cause significant difficulty or expense to the employer.” This goes by the size of the company and their finances.

A reasonable accommodation may be wheelchair access, extra time on exams, color-coded filing system, flexible work schedule, telecommunication devices, bigger fonts, and so on. It never hurts to ask an employer or school if they can make accommodations so you can perform to your true potential. If you have further questions about if you qualify or want more information on the topic, check out the following links:

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Even if you do not need these services now, you never know what the future will hold. It is always good to be informed in case you or a loved one needs an advocate. No one can speak better for you than yourself. But do not worry, there is help along the way

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